A fair number of gentlemen visit Kupendiza.com - yet they do not purchase. Why? We asked a number of men this question, and learned that it generally comes down to FOMAM. Fear of Making a Mistake. Getting the wrong thing is apparently a Big Deal. "Get her the right thing, though, and you come home a hero," the Rev. Armstrong commented with a big, pretty smile. He even stood up straighter as he said it. Well, this is our first attempt to address this. Let us help you, gentlemen! And feel free to weigh in with your thoughts.